A Story of A Girl

This is a story of a girl who held onto the concept of a serious relationship. I wrote this as a reminder to those youngsters out there who decide to have a so called serious relationship. It can end up with happiness or grieve. It is up you to decide how your life will be. Happy reading. 😊

In 2009, she was not like the others. Very different. Her friends could see smile and laugh. At night time, she went to her little space and cried. There was when she collected her courage and spirit to keep her alive.

She was the bench level of trust by some teachers. She was the bravest of all, they thought. Inside, she was like glass, strong but very fragile.

She asked for strength. Then, came a person who she thought a little strength for her.

She was starting to see the light and felt happy. She knew him, they knew each other but they seldom met. Texting was the only way they kept in touch with one another. Not all the time but just enough for them to share abouy life and views.

Until there was a time, he asked her about marrige, to promise to wait for him. It was a question that she did not expect to hear. Held onto the serious relationship concept, from friend, both of them moved to a serious relationship that they both vowed to end with a marriged life.

She was happy with the decision she made. So was him. To strengthen and care the promise, she began to set rules for herself. The relationship must be kept secret until they got married. She did not want others to know because it was a promise they both made. Why bother telling others? She thought. She seldom texts and calls unless there was a need. She kept her feeling well. She followed his steps, his advises and his all. She began to focus on him, stopped contacting others only him. Both family knew about this. Both parents were okay.

Contrary, the guy, he spreaded around abou the relationship almost to all people that they both knew; teachers and friends. When she questioned about it, he asked her why would she embarrassed with the relationship? She claimed it was not something that appropriate (for her) to spread to all until they both got married.

There was up and down moments. Still, they hung up to one another. Kept on trusting and love each other.

Until, another person came in. At first it was a normal meeting with friend, they both thought. She was here, at home. He was away from her, continuing his study. The third person started contacting the guy. She was okay with that. Since the third person was a very dear friend during school time and she respected her a lot.

Then, the third person started to ask to meet with the guy. She stopped him. For her, it was not okay to meet the third person alone. She could sense there was something not okay.

But the guy insisted.

After few days, he contacted her. Told her everything that happened. She broke down. Crying. Trying to accept the news. Still, with everything left in her, with love, she forgave him. She held onto the power of love and the vow she made with him.

At the same moment, the third person kept on asking for him to focus on her despites of knowing that he has someone else. The third person asked the girl to let go of him. She refused. The guy asked her to be patient and waited for him to solve the mess. The girl asked him to leave the third person for good but he said no. He wanted to help the third person.

After months of not contacting one another, she began to move on. Her friends told her about the engagement for the third person and the guy. They knew it from a media social. She broke down. Hurt. Not knowing where to ask, she tried to contacting him but failed. The third person interuppted and asked her to forget about the guy. She was devastated.

One day, the guy called her and asked her to wait for him. He said that his heart was belong to her not the third person. He was lost. The third person took control over his phone and all. With the love and vowed, she forgave him and said she would wait for him. Her family thought everything was okay. She did not tell about it.

When she continued her study, she began to move on with life. Trying not to think about him.

Until he called her she. He explained everything to her. He said he had left the third person. She asked him to stop contacting her.

She had let go of everything. The hurt was beyond her expectation. She could not believe anymore. At the same time, he kept trying to win her back.

She insisted with her decision to move on with life. Why waited for one who could not stand for her when he had the chance? If he loved her so much, why would not him let go of the third person when she asked him to. She had let go of others, why couldn't he do the same? Why came back after?

Then serious relationship concept vanished with the bitter memory. She moved on with life, searching for the meaning of life.

After a year, he called her and asked her to come to his wedding in June 2012.

She was so happy that finally he found someone else who could replace her. And promise herself to keep on living the life with lots of love.